What Our Past Residents Say
Parenting is an adventure and the restoration of your family may be the adventure of a lifetime. Each of you is at a different place in your adventure as you search the Internet for treatment programs, boarding schools, and Christian facilities.
For each parent there is often confusion and fear around what it means to place your child in a residential treatment facility. While placement in a boarding school might feel like a last ditch effort or a big financial and emotional risk, at Shelterwood, we see this decision as a new beginning. The at-risk youth that attend our treatment program crave structure and boundaries. While their risky behavior might seem like they want distance, teens are often searching for connection in their lives. We believe that we can help troubled teens find their way through adolescence and enable them to reconnect in a much deeper way with their parents.
Shelterwood has stood out among other boarding schools, treatment facilities, programs for at-risk teens and even other Christian boarding schools for more than thirty years. Through the years, our nonprofit ministry has helped hundreds of teens grow and become the people they were intended to be. Read just some of the testimonials that we have received over the past year. They provide a snapshot of families reunited and lives redeemed.
The following entries are directly from letters and emails, misspellings and all. Check out more reviews.
- Shelterwood is a great program and it really does set kids on the roadway to success i am one of those kids that it has helped. I appreciated all that they did for me that has made me stronger and put me on the road to great success in life. THANKS SHELTERWOOD!”
- So grateful for you and that there is a place where families can get the help they need. Because of the help that I received at Shelterwood, I am so much closer to my parents and my brother. We are a family again. Jody
- Our son has learned so much at Shelterwood. We are no longer seeing a sullen, silent child, but a young man with tools he can and does draw on to communicate with us. We see smiles and laughter and him planning for his future as opposed to the son who would stay in his room, refuse to eat dinner with us and never let us know what was going on in his world. We are seeing a young man who is maturing and using wisdom in his decision making process.
- The progress our son has made is unbelievable. His self-confidence and his faith have grown so much. When he arrived at Shelterwood he saw no hope for his future, he felt worthless and he hated himself. He was in the depths of depression. He has thanked us for sending him to Shelterwood and has said that it saved his life.
- I cannot say enough good thing about the bigs and staff, they are truly the hand and feet of our Lord. God’s presence has been evident all the way.
- We’re grateful every day for all Shelterwood has done for Nick, and even more so for the miraculous way God has surrounded him with godly people he can connect with. It has been a gift beyond measure.
- Today is the 4th anniversary of my graduation! I can’t believe it’s been so long. I have been incredibly blessed to have had experienced Shelterwood! I love every single one of you, I miss you guys so much. You mean the world to me, and each one of you had a hand in changing my life.
- I graduated from Shelterwood 3 years ago, and I still wish I was there sometimes.
- I miss my shelterwood family!! I am going through an extremely hard time right now and just knowing yall love me and care means the world and keeps me strong!
- I didn’t graduate from SW (wish i had) and if I had realized what a special place it was when I was there I wouldn’t have hurt so many people.. Definately made me a better person and I wouldn’t be in the great place I am with my Life if I hadn’t have learned the things I did there.. I love my SW family and always will.
- I am so thankful for all of you guys and you faithfully praying for us as we went through this valley. As I was going through our intake papers I am happy to let you all know that all of our goal were met and I am so thankful for this second chance with my daughter. She has grown so much and I am no longer afraid of what she might do.
- We just returned from an amazing God filled weekend at Shelterwood. What a gift God has given us in having found Shelterwood for our daughter. She is doing great! We are so thankful. One of the things that was so evident to my husband and me is the love and dedication all the staff has for all the kids. The BIGS are really there in the trenches as one parent put it. I know all the staff would appreciate hearing from us but the BIGS really live life with the kids 24/7 as do the House Directors. The girls shared their love and appreciation for the BIGS over and over again during our family sharing time. It was also cool to hear the teens share their love and appreciation for one another.
- Shelterwood made a huge differance in my life. It was the best and fondest memories of my teenage years. I kept meaning to write over the years, but you know how time flies. Unfortunately, I was recently wounded and disabled in Iraq. I have had many hardships because of this, but I still believe this was Gods will, and without the tools I learned at a young age in Shelterwood it would have been a nearly impossible mountain to overcome. Some of the best years of my youth were there at Shelterwood. God bless you and the work you continue to do.
- God gave us Shelterwood! Through Shelterwood we have our daughter and our family restored. God is faithful.
- Shelterwood was a God send for us. I am a widow and just wasn’t strong enough! Things have been much better since he completed Shelterwood 4 years ago.
- Still great memories about our time with Shelterwood. Our son has internalized so many strong values from Shelterwood.
- You have done so much for your son.
- Thank you so much for the work that your program has done in my life. It was truly an amazing experience that I will never forget.
- I just want to add how thankful we are for Shelterwood and the entire staff; for the love and guidance you all are providing for our son. We thank God daily for all of you and can’t thank you enough for being the arms of Jesus to him.
- Cheryl, a student from the early 90’s came back to visit 20 years later and found a picture of herself on our alumni bulletin board. She said that SW was her fondest memory of her childhood.
- I will never forget the hardships and great times that I had spent at Shelterwood. It really helped me turn my life in the right direction. It surrounded me with great people and great counseling. Thanks Shelterwood. Richard
- I returned home from Shelterwood eight years ago. As hard as it is to admit, it truly did make me who I am today. It probably took all eight years for me to be able to give you guys the credit, but looking back it wasn’t so bad. You guys run a great organization. Keep up the good work!
- If I would not have attended Shelterwood I would not be the man I am today. I reflect back on my experiences there and just smile. I believed then that my parents were taking away everything. They themselves were uncertain if what they were doing was too much. Looking back, they did not take… they gave me everything.
- Shelterwood provided support when we needed it most.
- I wasn’t expecting much in terms of my daughter’s improvement or growth in the 15 weeks since we brought her to SW, but I was hopeful. However, as the weekend unfolded, there was so much to be thankful for and so much encouragement. I was being blessed by all those around me and by the hospitality being offered to me and my family. I felt humbled.
- The staff loved my child and served my family by loving my child and modeling Christ-like behavior. This is testimony to the power of God. I am so thankful.
- “When I’m asked by a family who is in the middle of a crisis with a beloved, oppositional teen,“Is there a place they can go for real help and hope?” I give them Shelterwood’s number. In my opinion, Shelterwood is in the top 1% of residential treatment programs for teens that blends authentic Christianity with outstanding clinical and “life-on-life” support, modeling and counsel.” -John Trent, Ph.D. President, The Center for StrongFamilies and StrongFamilies.com
- “I’ve been associated with Shelterwood since it’s inception and think it’s one of the finest facilities for troubled teens available.” -Joe White, President, Kanakuk Kamp
- I graduated from SW back in 89. I was 14 and extremely angry. Today I am 34 and am living life. Thanks to my Godly big Sis at SW I am a changed person. It was a long year and a half that I spent in Branson, but I think it was time very well spent. I’m not sure where I would be today if it had not been for my shelterwood experience. The relationships that I developed that year have lasted and will last a lifetime. I wanted to draw close to God, because I saw a glimpse of him in the way my Big Sister and House Director related to me. They made God very attractive. Thank you to all of the staff at SW and for the sacrifices you make every day!
- I never got to really thank you for helping me. Thank you for being such a positive influence in my life.
- I want to thank all of you for being such a comfort in our time of chaos and trouble with our daughter. From the moment we brought her there, and over the next few months, I have never doubted her being there. When we went to the Spring Retreat, we both felt like the Lord had a covering over Shelterwood. We loved the retreat, meeting the staff and kids, and especially the parents. We finally felt like we weren’t alone, as every parent’s story seemed to be similar to ours. The counseling calls with Katie and Sara were wonderful and very helpful. This whole process has been enlightening, even though the circumstances bringing us to Shelterwood were less than desirable. I want you all to know my prayers are with you, not only in asking the Lord for continued encouragement and success for Shelterwood, but also in thankfulness for what you have all meant to me.
- I didn’t imagine how perfectly God would answer my prayers before Shelterwood the countless hours pouring my heart out before Him to intervene in John’s life. Specifically, I prayed that God would bring some Godly men into John’s life to mentor him in the ways of the Lord, and to be God’s hands and feet in bringing healing into his life. I knew that he needed something more than what I could give him, as a single mother. I spent a lot of my long drive home in the car thanking the Lord for the many ways He has answered my prayers. I am so thankful for the amazing young men who surround John now, and how he is getting exactly what he needs. I have seen such growth in him even in the last few months.
- Believe it or not …. I am a Shelterwood grad from 23 years ago!
- I am so happy that this wonderful place is still changing lives!
- I Graduated Shelterwood in 95 and am a better woman thanks to all the caring people there! Thank God for this place! Autumn
- I didn’t graduate the program. But I did leave with some tools that helped me through MANY MANY difficult times down the road… I was a student almost 10 years ago
- In spite of this painful period, we would make the same decision again because not only has our teen benefited, but each one of us has grown spiritually as a result of participating in the process. We are without a doubt, a better, happier family.
- Shelterwood saved our daughter’s life, gave her back to us renewed.
- Without Shelterwood, I am not sure that I would be alive today.
- I remember the Big Brothers and Sisters playing a big part in my growth. They did not judge me. They encouraged me and walked beside me. I looked up to them. I wanted what they had. I wanted God in my life.
- The people at Shelterwood became part of our family. Shelterwood has been a “green pasture” that the Lord made us lie down in, and “still waters” that the Lord led us beside, and you all have brought hope and healing to our family. Words can’t express our gratitude to the teachers, bigs, counselors, and staff that gave their love to our son at Shelterwood. Blessings, Jeff
- I have always wanted to say Thank you for what Shelterwood did for me. When I first came to Shelterwood I was really shy and did not express myself. I have many fond… memories of Shelterwood. It really turned me into a great person. …the program really helped me.
- I am a former little and i would love to have a Shelterwood poster to put up at my church. Shelterwood saved my life! Leighana
- We remember Nate’s year with you as key (he’s visiting a Shelterwood friend as I speak). He’s still maturing but the foundation he rebuilt with you all is still key for him. At 19 he’s still proving himself but our relationship is markedly better.
- Thanks for all you ALL do. Cary
- To be honest I thought that I didn’t like the place but now that I’m gone I can’t believe how much fun I had with everyone…. unfortunately I didn’t get to Finish the program… but I still think it’s a great place for guys and girls to get our acts together. Robert
Teenagers are not especially well behaved when they are not getting what they want, and I was no exception. I was an abrasive, dishonest, eating-disordered teenager who stopped at nothing to get what she wanted. I wanted to graduate with my class, to be in the senior theater production, to call my best friend, and none of those plans included a flight to Missouri. My parents, however, knew what I needed, and I thank them every day for providing me with it despite my efforts to make them miserable in their decision. I wonder now how long I would have lasted without their guidance (Not very long). My mind now, immediately goes back to the caring people of Shelterwood, and how they had loved me at my worst, and never stopped praying for me even after I left. I will always aspire to show love like they did, and I can only hope that I can reciprocate the incredible caring that I found there, even when I least appreciated it. Shelterwood is an amazing opportunity for a lot of teens to learn these life lessons in a safe environment, instead of learning the hard way in their adult life. While this seems like a hard decision in high school, it has the potential to save so much pain and heartache. I cannot tell you how much I love and respect my parents for making the hard choice to put me on that plane. God has blessed my life now with incredible healing that I could never imagine nor deserve. I love telling people about how my life has changed since then, and give the glory to God and those who do his work, which I can wholeheartedly say personifies those at Shelterwood. I graduate college next year, and I can’t wait to work in ministry and change lives to the extent that mine has been changed.Sarah Conner, former Shelterwood student
To find out more about the Shelterwood difference or to receive a list of alumni parents that you can talk to directly, just call us at (800) 584 5005. We would love to visit with you and discuss our approach to treatment, education and building strong, healthy and happy families. We’re in this together.












